It amazes me that my friends and friends of friends conversations are becoming more and more unpleasant when it comes to being in a loving relationship. The subject of "clocks ticking", being married with kidS before you reach a certain age are soooooo important. So important for who??
Well from a woman of a certain age, I can tell you it is not that much pressure if you are thinking about yourself and not what others are saying. Why? Because with modern technology, you can have twins at 50 (if you really wanted to). My point and case is, WHY would you get into a relationship for all the wrong reasons for it to blow up in your face later on down the line. Either way, it is no WIN/WIN situation. Folks are going to talk about you while you are single, married and later if you divorce.
So ladies learn to enjoy life while here on earth in any status. Yes, we all want a great perfect life, which will only happen in a perfect world. Do you and the things that make you happy, which in turn will make you more beautiful and feel good inside and out. NEVER look for someone else to make you happy. And when you have that glow of being happy and content......
Someone GREAT will come along to add to the HAPPINESS you already have.
One Love!
Status???? It is what it is!!! Single,in a relationship, engaged, married, divorced...whatever you are, you are still a child of God! Love yourself, and blessing will flow. Settling is not the bizness! However, with age comes te principle of compromise. Many women have "deal breakers", and oten time your "deal breaker", causes you to miss out on something good!!!! Give the man a chance! Men always over look our flaws, and love us in spite of. Many men have the first date jitters, GIVE THEM A BREAK!!! Women must be upfront when seriously dating a man, by letting them know your expectations, and not being afraid of giving an ultimatum. Take control of your own destiny, by taking the wheel!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!
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